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“Do asexuals have sex fantasies?” – my answer. Input welcome.

@AceSexologist I’m reading a book that states everyone has sexual fantasies unless they r filled w shame. Do asexuals have sex fantasies? @acesexologist I’m going to guess YES! but wanted to hear your thoughts. So this is what I was tweeted this … Continue reading

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Brief overview of the SSSS conference – Saturday

1. Capturing Predators, Punishing Perverts: MSNBC’s “To Catch a Predator” as a Serial Morality Play This was a very quick presentation, I didn’t take many notes and I have mixed feelings about the topic which I assure you wasn’t related … Continue reading

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Brief overview of the SSSS conference – Sunday

1. Phillip’s Sextuple, Because Size Matters (When Reporting Findings) I’m going to be honest that I haven’t taken Statistics in a long time and I think I would have needed to take a much higher level course to be able … Continue reading

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Mailing List Details

A lot of people have sent me feedback via the site’s comment boxes saying they would like to be involved in future surveys or future research etc. In an effort not to spam people with more e-mails than they want … Continue reading

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Thank you for your help!

Many of you probably participated in my “basic research project” and others probably found it to already be closed. Let me assure you that I collected 3 times as many female responses and 150% as many male responses as I … Continue reading

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I’m asexual AND I have a sexuality!

So today is “America’s Sexuality Day” (and International Sex Worker Rights Day) and so I wrote a blog entry about my sexuality because I’m oh-so-tired of hearing that asexuals don’t have a sexuality as if who you want to have … Continue reading

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Does anyone have resource suggestions for mixed relationships?

So one of my fellow sexologists has a client who is married and who has said that she would be perfectly happy not having sex at all except that she feels she needs to satisfy her husband (and that this … Continue reading

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New Musing Posted as part of #LadyPornDay

Well, February 22nd is Lady Porn Day, when female bloggers were asked to write about their experiences with porn and suggest porn that they like to other women. I wrote a musing about it which you can find here. Like … Continue reading

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I’ve dedicated a new page on my site just for my fellow sexologists – hopefully they make use of it.

In light of how often I’m mortified by the statements that other sexologists make I’ve created a permanent page on my site for other sexologists. I may change the information on the page over time, I may make the phrasing less angry, … Continue reading

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Response to Dr. Fawver’s comments about asexuality in HerCollege.com article.

The following is my response to Dr. Fawver’s comments in the article “Asexuality — Not Just for Amoebas: What it’s like to be “ace” in college” I am frequently ashamed of my fellow sexologists and their ignorance on the subject … Continue reading

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