I’m asexual AND I have a sexuality!

So today is “America’s Sexuality Day” (and International Sex Worker Rights Day) and so I wrote a blog entry about my sexuality because I’m oh-so-tired of hearing that asexuals don’t have a sexuality as if who you want to have sex with is the only thing that makes up a person’s sexuality! You can find my post on my blog site “Me, My Sexuality and….

Content warning: some people may consider it graphic, I talk a little about porn (though there’s a whole other blog post about porn), and about what I like doing with partners etc. Read at your own risk.

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3 Responses to I’m asexual AND I have a sexuality!

  1. ” I’m oh-so-tired of hearing that asexuals don’t have a sexuality.” Amen to that. It’s a statement that’s always riled me.

    • I saw some comments recently by a person who identifies as not having a sexuality but from what I can tell she just classifies differently the aspects that I would classify as a component of sexuality. Which seems like the obvious conclusion… people just seem to be intentionally difficult when they make the assumption that you don’t have any of what the things that they would consider to be part of sexuality.

      Part of the coursework that I’ve gone through has been to always ask people what they mean by any label they use because the meaning of a label can be so different from one person to the next. I can’t understand why that seems so difficult for people to extend to the label of asexual. Honestly.

  2. Thanks for this. It was very informative. I have never really thought about asexuality before, but reading your post helped me to realize that my assumptions about asexuality were generally wrong. I’m glad I can understand a little better now. 🙂

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